George Allen, Sr Quote

Winnie the Pooh Quote

"Sometimes the smallest things, take up the most room in your heart."
-Winnie the Pooh

The Guide To Doing Things You Don't Want to Do

1. Never procrastinate. It only makes things worse.
2. Think of how relieved you will be after you finish the task. 
3. If it is that terrible, take small breaks in between and continue on. But like I said, NEVER PROCRASTINATE. These small breaks should be filled with another task you need to do. 
4. Do it with a smile on your face. Even if the smile isn't genuine, staying positive about something you don't want to do goes a very long way. It's a lot better than being negative about something! Because just being negative drains people's energy (including yours!)
5. Just suck it up, the more you complain, the more it makes things worse for you. 
6. Reward yourself! It never hurts to reward yourself with a treat for your hard work!
I hope these tips have helped and if you guys have any suggestions just comment down below! 
P.S If you want to talk about something just email me at randombutyetpositiveadvice@gmail.com!
(This quote is very true)

Emperor of China (Mulan, Disney) Quote

"The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all."
-Emperor of China, Mulan

Archimedes The Owl Quote

Word/Question of the Week!

Importance: The state of being significant. 
What do you consider important?

Kim Taeyeon Quote

Brene Brown Quote

Socrates Quote

Word/Question of the Week

Strength: A good or beneficial quality that is useful to a person.
What are your strengths? How can you enhance them?

Always Keep Your Inner Fire Burning

Thank You So Much For 2,000 Views!

Seven months ago this blog was created as a safe and positive place for everyone to come; with a mission of helping people who want to be positive and helping people achieve that. I cannot express how thankful I am that you guys have helped support this blog! 2,000 views is a lot! I could not achieve this without your love and support! Thank you and STAY POSITIVE!

Thank you so much,

Miriam :)

“When we give cheerfully and accept gratefully, everyone is blessed.” 

― Maya Angelou 

Mother Teresa Quote

"We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do"
-Mother Teresa

Human Compassion

Dale Turner Quote

"Some of the best lessons we ever learn are learned from past mistakes. The error of the past is the wisdom and success of the future."
- Dale Turner

Vanessa Hudgens Quote

"Being cool is being your own self, not doing something that someone else is telling you to do."
-Vanessa Hudgens

Always Be There

Face Your Fears

Charles R. Swindoll Quote

"Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it."
-Charles R. Swindoll

Word/Question of the Week!

Optimist: A person who is happy and confident about something. 
Would you consider yourself an optimist?

Dealing With Past Dumb Decisions

The first thing I want to say is that we ALL make dumb decisions. Sometimes we don't know that we are making a dumb decision as we do the action. But as we look back on these mistakes we usually feel regret, ashamed, foolish, and cruddy. Now, the last thing we need is a reminder about how we shouldn't have done something. But, we do need those reminders to remind us that we shouldn't do that certain action in the future. A lot of people make decisions sometimes to impress their friends, to feel included or just because they think it's "cool". Well, let's take a step back and think about this. Always ask yourself:

1. Why am I doing this?

2. How does this help me?

3. (Most of all) How will this affect me in the future?

These are some of the basic questions to ask yourself before making a decision. Now, say you already did something and you are trying to make it better. If you said something that was rude or mean, apologize no matter how long it has been. If you have done something that has hurt your reputation, look at the mistakes you have made and correct it. For example, if you gossip, ask yourself, "How does this relate to me"? "How will this help me in the future"? But also, refrain from that activity and replace it with something wholesome. Think of how many things you could do rather than saying things about other people (it takes up more time than you think)! That energy you put into that one negative activity you could be putting into a positive activity! Now, if it is people you are hanging around that influence you to do these things, remove yourself from them. If you are around toxic people that only bring you down, ask yourself, "Why am I around them and what good is this to me"? Talk to someone new and be friends with them instead of being around someone that is miserable and only wants to bring you down with them. Always remember that misery LOVES company (someone very special to me told me that) and it is very true. They only want to see you more miserable than they are because they think that they are the only ones going through whatever it is they are going through. Get away from them and find someone new. It won't be immediate but it is better being lonely than being with someone that will only make you feel worse. One last thing I haven't gone over is how to personally get over the after thoughts of making a dumb decision. Here are my suggestions:

1. What is done is done. Unfortunately, we can't change our past but we CAN change our future. So like I said, correct the habits you have made and move on. 

2. Try your best not to beat yourself up. Take care of yourself. Always know that EVERYONE makes mistakes. You are never alone. 

3. Talk to someone you trust. Make sure this person cares about you and how you feel. 

4. Last but certainly not least, LISTEN to the advice an elder gives you. They have more experience than you, they have lived longer on this planet, and you might regret it if you don't follow their advice (trust me). They will tell you so if you don't follow their advice! 

So, I hope this has helped and while you are at it, STAY POSITIVE!! :)

Bernard M. Baruch Quote

“ Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”
– Bernard M. Baruch

Cute and Inspiring

Mae West Quote

“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” 
― Mae West

Amber Liu Quote

"It's not okay to make a hurtful comment about someone just because they don't reach your own standards."
-Amber Liu

Theodore Roosevelt Quote

"Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far."

-Theodore Roosevelt

Word/Question of the Week!

Artistic: Having an acquired creative skill.
We all have a (somewhat) artistic skill. What's yours?

Merlin, The Sword in the Stone Quote

"It's up to you how far you'll go. If you don't try, you'll never know."
-Merlin, The Sword in the Stone

Patience with Goals

At this day and age, all of us are usually used to getting things pretty quickly. This goes for the internet, electronics, and sometimes waiting in line. But sometimes we have to wait for some things more than others. We can't rush a lot of things like love or long term goals. Think of it as a cookie in the oven (the cookie being your goal). There are many steps in creating one singular cookie. You can't just throw some flour, eggs, milk, and sugar in a bowl then call it a cookie. You need to put in the correct measurements and most importantly bake it (salmonella is bad). Now how does this relate to a goal? Well, goals/dreams (whatever you want to call it) take just as many steps as a cookie. A goal needs time and it needs to be formed. A couple of posts ago I asked you, "How do you achieve your goals"? I am going to ask that again but I want you to think harder about this. What keeps you motivated? What have you done to achieve this? Goals don't come easily. They need a lot of elbow grease and determination. The most worthwhile goals are the ones you have to work for. In the end, it will be worth it. But as you do this STAY POSITIVE!  

Cinderella Quote

"No matter how your heart is grieving, if you keep on believing, dreams that you wish will come true."

-Cinderella, Disney