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Hello all!
As you guys can probably tell, I have not been posting as often. This is because now, I have turned my blog into a YouTube Channel! My channel name is Merry Mira and I would love for you to check it out (and subscribe if you want)! Here is the link:
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Stay positive!

Making the Best of What is Going On in the World

So, recently in the news we have seen a bunch of stuff going on in the world that isn't exactly positive. We see all of these terrorist attacks, nuclear threats, tension between countries, hurricanes, and many other things. When I turn on the news, there is always something negative. Now let's just address it, there will always be something negative on the news. That's what keeps people coming back to their news station. But it's your job to accept that there is bad stuff going on and for you to try your best to help. Now someone may ask, "How can I help? I'm just one person". Well, you may just think that you are one small person but it takes one person to start something big. Then there may be those instances where you aren't able to help physically but you can help spiritually. You can help by praying for the people that are going through hard times and for the protection of everyone in every country. No matter what your religion is, pray. It will reinstall hope in others that are in trouble.

You Can Do This!

   We have all been in a situation where you don't feel like you can move. Sometimes you can not feel supported or just feel stuck. Granted, it is hard to get out of this trap, but you have to know that you are your biggest cheerleader. No one else can define you but you. If you want to be known as someone who is depressing and you put that out there, you are going to be perceived as depressing and not many people want to be around that. Now, what if that is just my personality? Well, I'm sorry (but not sorry) to say this but a lot of people don't want to absorb negative energy. People tend to absorb other peoples personalities when they are around them. So if you hang around positive people, you will be more happy and satisfied whereas if you are around people who are sad all of the time, they will drag you down and lower your happiness. Be around people that make you feel good. Don't be around people who make you feel like you're nothing because that only lowers your confidence. I know sometimes that you can feel alone but trust me, you aren't. There are people that love and support you. Now if you say, there is no one that loves or supports me, you are just insulting the people who have been your friends and family from day one. So never try to say that. If you do, catch yourself and say, "Yes, I do have people that love and support me they are (insert name here)." Also, think positive. When a person thinks positive, you succeed and do better in a lot of things. When you have something you want to do, don't sit on the sidelines and let that opportunity pass. That just proves that you have already given up. One thing that I love to do when I am feeling terrible, is to listen to music. Listen to music that makes you feel good inside. I would recommend listening to something that lifts you up. Not something sad that you are relating to. What I am trying to say, is to listen to something you can relate to but is uplifting. If you are having trouble accomplishing something and you want to be better, I am here to tell you that YOU CAN DO THIS! You can do anything you set your mind to! Have a nice weekend! 
Need to talk to someone? You can email me at randombutyetpositiveadvice@gmail.com! 

Feeling Invisible and Dealing with It

When you feel invisible you don't feel acknowledged or special. Personally, I am going through this and I wanted to tell you that it gets better. Honestly, you don't need the people that are excluding you! The only person you should mainly have by your side is God. God will always be there, trust me. It may not seem like that, but he is listening to you. Just sit down in a quiet space, close your eyes and meditate. Trust me, it will be worth it.

The Muslim on the airplane | Amal Kassir | TEDxMileHighWomen

My philosophy for a happy life | Sam Berns | TEDxMidAtlantic

Madeleine Albright Quote

"It took me quite a long time to develop a voice, and now that I have it, I am not going to be silent."
-Madeleine Albright

Henri Matisse Quotes

"Creativity takes courage."
-Henri Matisse

Have You Been Told What You Believe is Wrong?

In my past posts, I have talked about being proud of who you are. In this post, I will be talking about how you should be proud of your religion. As a Roman Catholic, I hear a lot of comments that are rude and offensive towards my religion. Unfortunately, I did not have the courage to stand up for myself and say that what they were saying was wrong. But now, after some serious contemplation and some talks with my Mama, I have grown to realize that I should be proud of what I believe. So the point of this post is to tell you to be proud of your religion and to not make the same mistake I did. Don't let anyone push you around because of what you believe. Because believe me, standing up will boost your confidence and it will make you stand even firmer in your beliefs. 

Be Proud to Be You!

In today's society, we are told who we should be and what we should like. In stores, you will see these magazines saying, "How to Be Beautiful', "How to Impress Him/or Her", or other "How to's". These articles, are some of the reasons we become insecure about ourselves. If you want to impress someone, just be yourself! If the person you are trying to impress doesn't appreciate you for you then they are not worth your time! If you want to be beautiful, do what makes you feel beautiful! You don't need a magazine to tell you how you should look. Being unique is one of the most beautiful things in the world. Without unique people, the world would be boring and dull! So never be persuaded to think that how you look or think doesn't match today's "standards". Because someone out there admires you for standing up and being you!

What is Love?

The question that most of us wonder about. What is love? I have pondered this question a lot because although I am quite young I have always wondered about the real definition of love. We all have different definitions of love so I thought I could share mine! As cheesy as it sounds, I honestly don't know if I have enough words to explain. But anyways, here is my definition (technically the Bibles):

 "Love isn't selfish or quick tempered. It doesn't keep record of wrongs that others do. Love rejoices in truth, but not in evil. Love is always supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting".

                                    -1 Corinthians 13:5-7 

A few months ago my Mama shared this Bible verse with me and I agree with it and I think about it with my friendships. The more I think about this verse the more I rethink about some of the feelings I have had for people and certain friendships (side note: real friends are gems, never take them for granted!). Love is a feeling that you have for someone that never falters and a feeling that is selfless. In the verse above, it is never "selfish or quick tempered". If love was selfish, quick tempered and it always kept up with others wrong doings, how else are you suppose to progress with your partner? Speaking of partners, when looking for someone you are considering to date, (I know it sounds cheesy but it's true) always look at their personality! Never be with someone because of how handsome or pretty they look. Because if you only consider how someone looks, those looks are going to fade in a couple of years. So, when thinking about dating someone (or even having a crush on someone) I like to think of these questions:
1. Do they have the same morals as me?
2. Do they respect me and my boundaries?
3. (Most importantly) Do I see this person as a potential person to marry?
When someone is dating another person it is (in my opinion) the stage before marriage. So if you don't see yourself with that person, why bother being with them? I hope all of you enjoyed this article and I hope all of you stay positive! (P.S If you have any questions you can comment down below or you can email me at randombutyetpositiveadvice@gmail.com!)

Inspirational People

Sometimes it is hard to find a role model that helps inspire you every day. I know for me it was hard to find someone that was wholesome and positive and that had the same beliefs as me. Some of my most favorite people in the world are the people that inspire, love and support me. If you are having trouble finding someone, look in your family, look at your circle of friends, look at YouTubers, even look at celebrities! Down below I will list some of my inspirations! But anyways, even if you don't have a role model, turn into the person you want to be! Don't ever let anyone tell you that you are never good enough to be something/someone or that your dreams are impossible! What matters is your passion to pursue what you want to and the love you give yourself. Because at the end of the day, ask yourself, "Do I believe in myself"? Even if you do not have anyone behind to support you, you NEED to believe in what you do and to NEVER let anyone alter what you think.
My list of Inspirational People:
1. My Mom
2. WOOJONG(Check out his YouTube channel, he is one of the most inspirational people I have ever seen)
3. Audrey Hepburn
Stay Positive!

(P.S. Sorry if I haven't been posting as consistently as I have been, my schedule just has been extremely busy! However, I will be better about posting everyday!)

Word/Question of the Week

Role Model: Someone who inspires you to do something. 
Who is your role model? What do they do that inspires you?

Kanye West Quote

"If you have the opportunity to play this game of life you need to appreciate every moment. A lot of people don't appreciate the moment until it's passed."
-Kanye West

Shania Twain Quote

"It's important to give it all you have while you have the chance."

-Shania Twain

IamLaron Quote

"New day, new blessing.

Don't let yesterday's failures ruin the beauty of today,

Because each day has its own promise of love, joy, forgiveness...Be thankful for the good things in life and that will set the mood for the rest of the day and you will find success. Give love and you will get it back in return. Morning is the best time to set the tone for the rest of the day. Speak good things to yourself and fill your brain with all that is good and that will propel you into your destiny."

-@IamLaron

Word/Question of the Week!

Belief: The acceptance that something is true.
What are your beliefs? Do you stand up for them?

To Be Happy You Have to Go Through Sadness

Baekhyun Quote

"Life is only a path of efforts."
-Baekhyun 

Rap Monster Quote

"Happiness is not something you have to achieve. You can still feel happy during the process of achieving something."

-Rap Monster

Staying Positive While Being Sick

It is completely miserable when someone you know or yourself gets sick. Especially, if it is something like the stomach bug or the flu (anything really). When you are sick, you can't help but feel miserable and think about how terrible you feel. However, there is a way to help you feel better when you are sick. Here are some of my personal suggestions:

1. Take it easy- This is an obvious solution but it is one of the best. Sometimes we need to take time off of work or school to regain our strength. Read a book, watch a movie, or SLEEP! Your body NEEDS sleep to feel better so I strongly suggest sleeping. 

2. Try to ignore the feeling- Say your stomach is hurting and you just need a good distraction. My suggestion is to grab a pillow and place it on your stomach (hunch over). Grab a book (your favorite book) and read. Or, you could always try working from home (if you are feeling somewhat better). As a person who is in school, we have to keep up with our work to maintain good grades or else we can fall behind. In my opinion, this provides a great distraction because you are focused on something you need to do. 

3. Think happy thoughts- Think that you will get through this no matter how sick you are. Now, some of you may be like, "It is a lot harder than it sounds to stay positive while being sick". EVERY human being has been sick at least once in their life (no matter how small the illness is), it is your decision to try to make being sick a positive. Plus, what are negative thoughts getting you?

I hope I helped you guys out and I hope that none of you are sick but if you are just STAY POSITIVE! Sending positive vibes! :)

Word/Question of the Week!

Agreeable: Willing to agree to something or something enjoyable. 
Sometimes we always can't get our way, would you consider yourself agreeable?

Nicki Minaj Quote

Adele Quote

"I have insecurities of course, but I don't hang out with anyone who points them out to me." 
-Adele

Tell Yourself...

Tell yourself that you can do it and you can if you just put your mind to it.

Word/Question of the Week!

Authentic: Different; Genuine.
What makes you authentic?

Random Quote

Steven Tyler Quote

"If you don't know have a dream, there is no way to make one come true."
-Steven Tyler 

Matt Kemp Quote

Word/Question of the Week

Persistence: Continuing an action despite the difficulty.
 What are you most persistent about?

Deng Xiaoping Quote

Heres Some Motivation......

We all need some motivation in life.

Some Cowboy Quote

"Lettin' the cat outta the bag is a whole lot easier than puttin' it back"

-Some Cowboy

George Allen, Sr Quote

Winnie the Pooh Quote

"Sometimes the smallest things, take up the most room in your heart."
-Winnie the Pooh

The Guide To Doing Things You Don't Want to Do

1. Never procrastinate. It only makes things worse.
2. Think of how relieved you will be after you finish the task. 
3. If it is that terrible, take small breaks in between and continue on. But like I said, NEVER PROCRASTINATE. These small breaks should be filled with another task you need to do. 
4. Do it with a smile on your face. Even if the smile isn't genuine, staying positive about something you don't want to do goes a very long way. It's a lot better than being negative about something! Because just being negative drains people's energy (including yours!)
5. Just suck it up, the more you complain, the more it makes things worse for you. 
6. Reward yourself! It never hurts to reward yourself with a treat for your hard work!
I hope these tips have helped and if you guys have any suggestions just comment down below! 
P.S If you want to talk about something just email me at randombutyetpositiveadvice@gmail.com!
(This quote is very true)

Emperor of China (Mulan, Disney) Quote

"The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all."
-Emperor of China, Mulan

Archimedes The Owl Quote

Word/Question of the Week!

Importance: The state of being significant. 
What do you consider important?

Kim Taeyeon Quote

Brene Brown Quote

Socrates Quote

Word/Question of the Week

Strength: A good or beneficial quality that is useful to a person.
What are your strengths? How can you enhance them?

Always Keep Your Inner Fire Burning

Thank You So Much For 2,000 Views!

Seven months ago this blog was created as a safe and positive place for everyone to come; with a mission of helping people who want to be positive and helping people achieve that. I cannot express how thankful I am that you guys have helped support this blog! 2,000 views is a lot! I could not achieve this without your love and support! Thank you and STAY POSITIVE!

Thank you so much,

Miriam :)

“When we give cheerfully and accept gratefully, everyone is blessed.” 

― Maya Angelou 

Mother Teresa Quote

"We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do"
-Mother Teresa

Human Compassion

Dale Turner Quote

"Some of the best lessons we ever learn are learned from past mistakes. The error of the past is the wisdom and success of the future."
- Dale Turner

Vanessa Hudgens Quote

"Being cool is being your own self, not doing something that someone else is telling you to do."
-Vanessa Hudgens